Dear Great Book Guru, Well, now the holidays are really
over- everyone is back at work or school and the winter blues are beginning to
set in. Do you have something to help
your readers get through this dreary time of year? Looking to Beat the Winter Blues
Dear Looking to Beat the Winter Blues, I received a very interesting book as a
Christmas gift from Daniel DiPietro: THE
ANTIDOTE-Happiness for Those Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking by Oliver Burkeman,
a writer for the British newspaper The Guardian. Burkeman debunks many
self-help champions like Norman Vincent Peale, Wayne Dyer, and Eckhart Tolle with their message of
looking on the bright side and thinking positive thoughts will guarantee a happy
outcome. Instead he suggests looking to the ancient Greeks, especially the Stoics
with their realistic approach to life’s adversities. By confronting and studying the worst scenarios, he suggests
we can embrace failure and loss and be free to enjoy what remains. It is
certainly a counterintuitive idea, but the author gives much evidence of its
success. He also uses the tenets of Buddhism to support his belief that a good
life is one lived in the present,
accepting that the past is over, and that the future will never to be realized.
THE ANTIDOTE offers a very readable, at times humorous survey of philosophical trends
over the centuries and we are left with a much more nuanced definition of
happiness.
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